{"id":881,"date":"2026-06-07T20:38:52","date_gmt":"2026-06-08T01:38:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/jeniferbenner.com\/life\/?p=881"},"modified":"2026-06-07T20:38:52","modified_gmt":"2026-06-08T01:38:52","slug":"i-am-just-at-the-point-where","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/jeniferbenner.com\/life\/i-am-just-at-the-point-where\/","title":{"rendered":"I am just at the point where&#8230;."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I\u2019m tired. And honestly, I\u2019m done at this point.<\/p>\n<p>Tired of people assuming I have all the information when I don\u2019t.<\/p>\n<p>Tired of trying to explain my perspective based on the information I do have, only to be told I\u2019m wrong for seeing it that way over and over.<\/p>\n<p>Tired of expressing my feelings and being accused of playing the victim.<\/p>\n<p>People forget that communication isn\u2019t just words. I read facial expressions, body language, and energy because I\u2019ve spent my entire life navigating a world that often isn\u2019t built for me.<\/p>\n<p>What hurts the most is the expectation that I should constantly adapt to the hearing world, while so few people make the effort to understand Deaf culture, accessibility, or the realities of communication barriers.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve spent my entire life learning how to function in a world that wasn\u2019t designed for me.<\/p>\n<p>The least people can do is listen.<\/p>\n<p>The least people can do is learn.<\/p>\n<p>The least people can do is try to understand.<\/p>\n<p>Because I\u2019m exhausted from always being the one expected to bridge the gap, why can&#8217;t they help?<\/p>\n<p>And honestly?<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m at the point where I\u2019m saying:<\/p>\n<p>FRAK YOU.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I\u2019m tired. And honestly, I\u2019m done at this point. Tired of people assuming I have all the information when I don\u2019t. Tired of trying to explain my perspective based on the information I do have, only to be told I\u2019m wrong for seeing it that way over and over. Tired of expressing my feelings and <a href=\"https:\/\/jeniferbenner.com\/life\/i-am-just-at-the-point-where\/\" class=\"read-more below\">&#8230; Read More<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[36],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-881","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-life-rant"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/jeniferbenner.com\/life\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/881","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/jeniferbenner.com\/life\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/jeniferbenner.com\/life\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jeniferbenner.com\/life\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jeniferbenner.com\/life\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=881"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/jeniferbenner.com\/life\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/881\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":882,"href":"https:\/\/jeniferbenner.com\/life\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/881\/revisions\/882"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/jeniferbenner.com\/life\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=881"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jeniferbenner.com\/life\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=881"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jeniferbenner.com\/life\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=881"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}